If I’m keepin’ it real, this blog idea had a very different genesis a few years ago. I couldn’t WAIT to share with you guys all the traumatic heartache my divorce caused me. I wanted to share every grueling detail; all the things I was inadvertently put through. In the early years of my marriage falling apart, I was CERTAIN I would write a book about the mishaps and “adventures” because I thought SURELY all of the CRAZINESS and UNBELIEVABLE circumstances were the makings of a best seller turned Lifetime movie.
Yet, I never wrote during those years… I can’t really tell you why. I just didn’t.
Something happens to you as you escape from the pain. While the sting remains, the excruciatingly painful heartsickness slowly turns into forgiveness, and dare I say, gratitude. It’s a crazy thing, this so-called life.
So, it’s true when they say each new day is a day further from the pain.
Now, rather than share all the gory details, I can’t wait to share how my life has been transformed! The Lord has been SO faithful to redeem! I never, ever, EVER thought the life I have now was even possible. You DO have to go through it to get TO it.
Welcome to my journey!
Congrats on this new journey. Can’t wait to read the next entry.
How exciting!!! I will be following this blog, and praying for you always!
So happy to see you made it through the other side. I am looking forward to reading your posts. The Refiners fire is indeed a blessing and not a curse.
Very inspiring Sara, and so very happy to see you reach a new level of happiness and self awareness! Who knows how many lives you will inspire to do the same #strivingforsimple
I love this: #strivingforsimple !!!!! It is my new fav hashtag! Love you much!
Terrific story and testament. The Lord is amazing!
Great start Sara! Can’t wait to read more of what is on your heart. We learn so much from each other’s journeys.
I always knew you were an amazing lady. I knew it when I first met you all those years ago. That’s what being a child of God does for you….it let’s others know there is something different about you; it can be seen in the sparkle of your eyes, even when you are sad. I’m so happy for, Simply Sara!
So incredibly proud of you. Simply beyond words.
Janice
Amen, Sara. God has delivered, redeemed, transformed, and restored me. He brought me up out of a very dark place and never, ever gave up on me! I am facedown at His beautiful feet – forever indebted to Him and eternally grateful to be so!
I look forward to “hearing” your testimony of God’s precious love that transforms and makes us new💜
Sara, I am so proud of you for taking such a bold step to carry out God’s desire for you. I’ll be honest, when I realized you were no longer married (slowly it was evident through Facebook) I worried about how you were because it was so extremely unexpected to me, therefore I felt it would have been unexpected to you as well. Eventually I knew you had risen above because of your faith, still worrying about the pain you had inevitably suffered. I am thrilled and honored to have the opportunity to read your testimony. I’m sure many who have suffered will find inspiration in your words. ❤️
Amy, thank you so much for your kind words. It WAS unexpected, but I hid my story for two very long years. I thought my marriage would be saved and the public would be none the wiser. I was SORELY mistaken and basically, I was living a lie. I’m very, very ashamed I did this. And it was wrong. Part of this “coming out” if you will, is owning the story I’ve been given. I do plan to share my rational behind the hiding, how HARD it was to live a lie, but how the Lord had mercy upon me… The truth is, you never know what you’ll do in a situation until you are smack dab in the middle of it. But I’m here to say, I survived and am SO MUCH BETTER for it. Stay tuned! <3
I need more. Keep them coming… ❤️
Isn’t God good!!!!! Glory – can’t wait to read more!
My precious Sara…I am SO proud of who you are now and who you have always been. We love you ♡
You know I’m loving this and wanting more!!! You are amazing.
You continue to be a inspiration…
So proud of you! And love you dearly.
What an exciting day! Thanks for your courage AND joy in sharing!!
Simply Sara…such a beautiful name for your blog! I too am in Tribewriters and am excited to hear more of your story! I can completely relate with the previous desire to share all of the darkside details of a toxic relationship, but somehow through the years, God has transformed my heart to do otherwise. I feel compelled to share the mercy and grace God has bestowed on two sinners who have fought very different battles in their plight to feel loved and accepted, and how He has transformed our hearts to become more like Him in the process. Only He, Jesus Christ, can bring beauty out of brokenness.
Thank you so much for your beautiful reply Kristy! Beauty from ashes. <3
You inspire me! You have helped me MORE THAN you will EVER KNOW! Forgiveness FREES YOU!!!! Can’t wait to read the next!!! Love ya!
You guys, thank you SO much for each and every one of your responses. Some of you I know, some of you I don’t, but your kind words fill my heart and encourage me greatly. Much love to all! xo
Oh Sara, I completely understand what you mean when you say that you thought your experiences were the makings of a book and movie. I once felt the exact same way. As time has progressed I now feel BEYOND GRATEFUL for finally walking away from those awful circumstances and leaving all of it behind me. Yes, it was devastating at that time, but oh how I praise Him now! I truly cannot think of the perfect words that can accurately describe my gratitude and deep praise to God for my life now. Thank you, Jesus!!
I always knew something big would come from you! Congratulations on your new adventure ❤️ This blog is surely a gift to all who read it!
Thank you SO much Michelle! Such kind words and I am completely humbled. So grateful to be able to share my story. Much love to you! <3
“Now, rather than share all the gory details, I can’t wait to share how my life has been transformed! ” I love this Sara, I can’t wait to go on this journey with you.